More than Just Sex by Ali Campbell

Author:Ali Campbell
Language: eng
Format: mobi, epub, pdf
Tags: Dating
Publisher: Hay House, Inc.
Published: 2012-04-01T20:00:00+00:00

This is the first of the psychological techniques to influence ‘both’ your thinking.

There have been hundreds of thousands of words written in recent years on the art, craft and science of picking up the opposite sex, but if we were to distil them all down, they basically fall into three simple categories.

1. THE ‘CHARM AND FLATTERY’ SEDUCTION TECHNIQUE

Almost everybody over the age of 12 should be familiar with this first method. For generations, men have been led to believe that this is the most effective way to get the girl.

Just in case you are not familiar with the technique it goes a little something like this. You flatter and compliment a girl from the beginning of the conversation, and offer to wine and dine her, take her places and, in general, spend a lot of attention and money on her in the hope that she will return your favours with some ‘favours’ of her own.

In my humble but considered opinion, this is by far the weakest and least effective seduction technique that any man can use on any modern woman. Sure, it might have worked for your dad, but the modern woman doesn’t need your flattery, gifts and money. She more than likely has plenty of self-confidence and cash of her own, thank you very much.

But, perhaps more importantly, this approach tells a woman that you have nothing of ‘real’ value to offer her besides your ‘resources’, and if you’re not in the right income bracket, your money isn’t going to hold much value with a beautiful woman anyway.

Oh and please, please do not ever get into the trap of chasing her with cash that you don’t have and can’t afford. You’re not going to impress or keep anyone like that, and she’ll tear your heart out through your wallet and not even know she is doing it.

2. THE PUA

Next is the new game in town, the PUA, ‘speed seduction’ or ‘mind manipulation’ approach. Now, while I am a huge fan of NLP and hypnosis, I am not really into manipulating anyone into doing something that they don’t want to do. Yes I could teach you how to nest loops and embed commands (that’s ‘embed’ not ‘in-bed’) to get exactly what you want in a particular moment, but I know that’s not what you want. What you want is everything – the whole package, not just a few fun minutes on a Saturday night. You want a great girl, great sex and a great big smile on your face when you head home to her at night. If that’s the goal, then we need you to stay firmly on the right side of what is ethical.

The majority of PUA books will include a variety of patterns and scripts, which are designed to get women to experience feelings of sexual excitement, attraction and just about anything else that you want her to experience. That is one of the strengths of hypnosis and NLP, but only if used in the right way.

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